Monday, February 25, 2008
Relate test
We just took a relationship test in our marriage prep class. It was so interesting!!! I really found out alot about myself and I am so glad that I had to take it. I was kind of bummed at first because I had to pay for it, but it was so worth it. I realized that the way that I communicate with my boyfriend, is not as efficient as I thought it was. He was so complamentary of me and really put me on such a pedestal in all of the questions. I know he loves me and this really showed it. Guess what-- I love him too!!!! We were both a lot harder on ourselves than we were on the other person. Tim has so many strenghts and I am glad that he has strengthened me because of it! I made 5 goals to help me take the information that I got and apply it to my life. I made goals to improve myself in ways other than things that are strictly related to my relationship with Tim and realized that doing those things will help me prepare for marriage too!! I know that coming closer to God will help me in all aspects of my life as he shapes and molds me to be the best person I can be, and to make me more christ-like. I am grateful for the relationship that I have with my heavenly father and that he is always there for me through all of my problems and through all of my insecurities. I know that when a relationship is centered around God it is bound to be successful!! Another thing I learned is how important things like family background are in a realtionship. Tim and I both have a strong family background but I could see in places that we were different where our backgrounds affected us. Gender roles are very important in his family and I came from a family of all sisters so I don't have that same experience. In the end I was excited to see that Tim and I had basically all strenghts and only a few places that we needed to work on or watch out for. Yall should all take the test!!!!! It is on the website : https://www.relate-institute.org Have a great day!!!!
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